Reclaiming Selfishness
We’ve been taught that putting ourselves first is wrong. That prioritizing our own needs is selfish. But what if this belief is one of the greatest deceptions we’ve inherited?
Society often defines selfishness as excessive concern for oneself, disregarding others in the pursuit of pleasure, advantage, or gain. And yes, when driven by greed, ego, or fear, selfishness can destroy relationships, breed isolation, and stunt our moral development. That version of selfishness should not be glorified.
But there’s another side, a sacred, necessary selfishness, the kind rooted in self-respect, clarity, and inner alignment. From a spiritual perspective, this isn’t harmful. It’s vital.
We live in a world that rewards self-sacrifice but punishes self-prioritization. We make time for everyone else, our work, our families, our obligations, but rarely for ourselves. We’ll spend money on entertainment and distractions, but hesitate when it comes to investing in our healing, growth, or inner peace. We say, “I don’t have time” or “can’t afford it,” but often, we simply haven’t learned how to value ourselves.
Here’s the truth: You cannot pour from an empty cup. You cannot give what you haven’t cultivated within. You cannot offer peace if you’re at war inside. You cannot love fully if you haven’t learned to love yourself first.
So, give yourself permission to be “selfish” in the highest sense. Say no when your heart needs rest. Make space for silence. Be your own best company. Clean your inner home before pointing at someone else’s. Nourish your soul as if the world depends on it, because in many ways, it does.
Because when you heal, grow, and awaken, you radiate something real. Your presence alone becomes a blessing. You stop adding noise and begin transmitting clarity. You stop perpetuating pain and start becoming part of the healing.
The most generous thing you can do for this world… is to become the most whole, conscious, loving version of yourself. The world calls it selfishness. The soul calls it self-respect. So, never apologize for tending to your own flame before lighting the way for others. Shine from within, and watch how everything begins to shift.
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Author: Maurice "Mao" Correa
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