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Lying goes far

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 Subscribe Free  Lies are not only personal—they are systemic. They live in families, institutions, corporations, media, governments, even nations. Parents lie to protect, leaders to control, professionals to cover mistakes, institutions to preserve power. Truth threatens agendas, so shadows are chosen over light. Most people know this, yet many choose silence. Some close their eyes, drink the Kool-Aid, and pretend not to see. Others are blinded completely, lost in propaganda and half-truths. In both cases, manipulation thrives. The lie feeds on your trust, your love, your need, your empathy. It turns your very virtues into chains. And every lie has a cost. Trust is shattered. Relationships fracture. Communities divide. Innocence is lost. Toxic is toxic, whether whispered by a friend, preached by an institution, or shouted by a government. “The truth is still the truth even if no one believes it, and a lie is still a lie even if everyone believes it.” That is reality. ...

Everyone lies

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 Subscribe Free  Every human bends the truth—sometimes with a whisper, sometimes with a mask. No one escapes it. Lies come in many forms: occasional “white lies,” habitual exaggerations, compulsive fabrications, even pathological deceptions tied to deeper disorders. We lie to avoid punishment, to gain advantage, to protect pride, to be accepted, or to spare another’s feelings. At some point, each of us has twisted facts or shaded reality. But let us be clear: a lie is still a lie. When we distort reality, we are not presenting life as it is—we are creating a version that protects our ego. Why do we do this? Because we fear rejection. Because we crave approval. Because we cannot bear to be fully seen as we are. Lies, in the end, are not about others. They are about us. Most people are not truly ready for the truth. They do not want reality—they want reassurance. They want their beliefs confirmed, not challenged. This is why, even when presented with undeniable facts, ma...

Goals and Milestones

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 Subscribe Free  We speak of life as if we know what it is, but do we? Is it merely the time between birth and death, the sum of our achievements, or is it something far greater? Science defines life as the difference between organic and inorganic matter. Culture calls it a biography, a span of years. Yet from a personal standpoint, life reveals itself as something more intimate: a tapestry of moments. Looking back, life is not the calendar or the clock, it is the laughter that still echoes, the wounds that still ache, the love that still warms. Looking forward, it is the horizon of dreams not yet walked, the milestones we imagine: graduations, careers, homes, families, adventures, and spiritual quests. These matter, but they are markers, not the essence. They are points on the path, not the path itself. Goals have value. They give us direction, help us rise each morning with purpose, and push us forward when we might otherwise drift. But goals are not life, they are ste...